Although not formally requested, I feel I've been gifted merely because I am looking at things differently. Received a call from a sibling conerned about our parent. A great door opening call, recognizing parent might need some help. Was asked to call other sibling and reach out. Responded that it should be he that makes that call (new behavior for me). He did, they talked, we all talked! We are now starting to have the power of many (a mastermind) to assist our loved one. My requests in the past weren't able to be heard by either of them. I didn't verbally request this, it just came. What a gift that one call was to me!