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To love is to approach each other center to center.
-Pierre Teilhard de Chardin
The great thing about Stay Married: Make More Love & Less Conflict is that you don't need your spouse to do this with you in order to restore your marriage to it's full lovemaking capacity! Although this may seem beyond belief, I've written this course for you to have the magic wand you've been seeking but thought couldn't possibly exist. Even if you've heard about Spiritual Principles before now, know that this is a completely unique approach that produces fulfilling, lasting results!
First of all, it’s ALL about how we connect. The largest percentage of the communication that takes place between two people is at a non-verbal level, and it’s there that we’re actually producing the foundation for any unhappy responses and results we’re getting during the verbal segments of communication.
We are constantly non-verbally communicating about ourselves, about our judgments of each other--specifically each other's shortcomings--and about our fear: fear that we can't have what we really want and need from each other. This, of course, shuts down love and therefore, lovemaking, sexual desire and our capacity to connect. And if we’re not connecting with each other at those levels that count, then a shaky, uncomfortable or dissolving marriage is a natural result.
This Online Course is an energetic approach to attaining a marriage that you can ultimately relax into. That's right. Relax into. You see, we are a society that has figured out how to leave relationships . . . but, learning how to stay and be happy, relaxed, fulfilled and satisfied, well now, that requires taking our thinking and attitude to a whole new level. The “good news” is that following the directions and guidance of this course will lead you directly to that new level of thinking and being!
As I have traveled and spoken to over 20,000 people across the country, I have found that everybody - and I do mean everybody - really wants peace, love, harmony and good will at the core of their being. Every single person on the planet wants and needs to know that they matter and that their lives have value. This is a valid desire for anyone’s core human experience. And the more readily we accept this for ourselves, the quicker we will be able to "give" it to those we care about.
For you see, it's impossible to give anybody anything that you have not been able to give to yourself, i.e. compassion, mercy, love, acceptance, approval, regard, accommodation and inclusion.
There are people who will say that we are a society that is far, far too selfish - and yet, our need to give and receive love is the natural order of what we came here to do.
Giving and receiving is a cyclic experience. Unfortunately, we tend to forget the part about receiving and we therefore shut down the gifts that another may be trying to give us. Receiving is the gift back to the giver. Think about it. You see, I have made this course to offer you a new approach to dealing with the challenges you may be facing in your marriage, whether having to do with giving and receiving, how you connect with each other, or any of a myriad of other “issues” vital to the creation and maintenance of a fulfilling marriage.
Out of all of the books and ebooks on the market, the work in this Online Course is not dependent upon your regurgitating your childhood history. Instead, it is about taking snippets of historic information and then teaching you how to immediately go forward with them, while validating who you are and what it is you've really been wanting in your marriage, but have not been able to have as your experience.
We will simply take each problematic condition of your marriage and learn how to set it up as a relationship goal and apply it to the most phenomenal Spiritual Principle available to mankind: the MasterMind Principle.
In this course you will learn to formulate relationship and lovemaking goals in the form of MasterMind requests. The key to all of this is that once you have decided exactly how you prefer that certain aspects of your marriage be, you will ask a friend - “advocate” or MasterMind partner -- of yours to "see" with you these requests manifested, and then and only then will new energy, direction and guidance begin to open up those dark areas of your life and marriage. As a result of this work, you and your spouse will be affected and moved energetically toward a new and more understanding, merciful and fulfilling relationship with new skills and results unfolding.
We will not go back in time to unearth everything that's happened to us in childhood, but we will take the remnants of past labels and quickly go forward into a future we want to create with our mate: this is the ultimate requirement for the healing of anything that has gone before.
The only cycle of behavior or pattern of doing that thing that we always do - that needs to be altered begins with the belief that you have to beat the past to death in order to change it! The only thing that will change the past is to decide differently about it . . . and you will be learning exactly how to do that, too. One of the primary keys to transforming a broken or stale, despondent marriage is to keep your entire focus on the future you want to create. In fact, you will be learning how to hold a rigorous focus on that most desired future. Maybe you've never thought of healing a relationship in this way before, but let me tell you: it's powerful, it’s simple and it works!
Our intimate relationships actually contain a complete blueprint
for spiritual realization.
- the Levines, On: To Love and Be Loved
SoundsTrue.com
Simply put, this Online Course is designed to lead you beyond psychological explanations and show how you and your spouse (with you leading the way) can together immerse yourselves in the "ocean of compassion" - where you will discover how to overcome the fear that closes your heart and replace it with the vision of the future you want to create with your mate. You’ll then be able to enjoy a satisfying future of heartful mercy: the key to creativity, freedom and love.
Through examining the honest, real-life sharing of my personal story, you will learn how to discover the greatest gift of all: the Spiritual Principle which brings healing transformation - for yourself and your spouse. For you will see—as I describe it in this online course—how I stopped my second divorce--which was in the courts, all but ready to be signed by the judge--and saved my marriage through first doing my own personal work, through MasterMinding with a friend . . . and then how that ultimately, energetically attracted my husband back into the marriage.
Let me begin by first explaining where the MasterMind Principle arises from and just how powerful applying the MasterMind Principle is. One of the books I read nearly a decade before my marriage was headed for divorce court was Napoleon Hill's, Think & Grow Rich, in which he explains the "connection to source energy - pure positive energy" by saying that the primary feature of MasterMinding is psychic.
The psychic phase of the MasterMind "Connection,” Hill says, happens because: "No two minds ever come together without, thereby, creating a third invisible, intangible force which may be likened to a third mind."
He states that "the human mind is a form of energy, a part of it being spiritual in nature. When the minds of two people are coordinated in a spirit of harmony, the spiritual units of energy of each mind form an affinity, which constitutes the 'psychic' phase of the MasterMind."
Hill concludes that the "MasterMind" Principle is in play “when two or more people coordinate in a spirit of harmony and work toward a definite objective or purpose, [when] they place themselves in position, through the alliance, to absorb power directly from the great storehouse of Infinite Intelligence.”
In my case, it simply did not occur to me to MasterMind for my marriage, until my marriage was all but over. I had been MasterMinding for years to build my business and only minimally using my time with my MasterMind partner to set relationship goals for and about my marriage. I was more often than not using the time with my MasterMind partner to simply complain about my husband and all his faults. I had a powerful vehicle for change, but I did not use it to its full extent. I had determined that the problems in my marriage were simply problems that "I of myself" had to handle and fix and work on and argue over and confront, fight for and, and, and . . . and I was exhausted with doing everything the "right" way only to get painful and upsetting results!
In other words, no matter what I did, no matter how hard I tried to do what I knew I could be doing to improve things: all of it still made me the policeman, the bitch, the confronter, the responsible one. And thank God, he walked out on me while I was trying so hard not to walk out on him!
For you see, I had walked out on my first marriage and I was hell-bent not to walk out on this one. So, my second husband did it for me! Amazing how we set these things up for ourselves!
I was simply not seeking Infinite intervention to transform me and the conditions that we were repeating, in part derived from generation after generation of unhappy marriages in our families that preceded ours. I knew what I could be doing, but by God, I did not want to be the one to do it! How human is that?! (But again, this being an “Introduction,” suffice it to say that I’ll be sharing more about the details of my story in the coming pages).
In learning how to utilize the MasterMind Principle with a support person to save your marriage, love can not only last forever, but be an ever evolving, re-igniting experience. You will discover the “marriage of your dreams” through a weekly process of learning vibrationally healing language and the new powerful dialogue that comes through to enjoy your connection.
You will be learning how to MasterMind weekly for the changes that need to occur for both of you, that you see are simply not happening by doing things on our own.
This course is not only about stopping divorce, and/or about breathing new life back into your marriage. It’s about TRANSFORMING all that has gone before in the history of marriage. We are simply healing the legacies that have been passed on to us, generation after generation, of missing the mark on love.
The very first thing you are going to learn to do in this course is to immediately shift any negative, destructive energy or attitudes, and simultaneously transform your current perceptions into pro-ceptions. Meaning that from this moment forward, you are going to be deciding for your marriage with every new thought you take.
Second, you will learn in this Online Course that it is all about the physics of love. You will learn how to be in your most powerfully attracting state. This course is singular in its focus and aimed squarely at results! If you could have made your marriage work by yourself, through controlling people and circumstances, it would have worked by now. So I am assuming that you "get it" that your way has not worked and you are now open to the ways that will bring you all that you could ever want and more!
Third, this Online Course IS about taking your marriage to the next level. To a level you've never gone before. You will learn how to think what you've never thought before, believe what you've never believed before, and experience marriage in a way that you've only dreamt of before. Yes, whatever you've wanted in your heart of hearts for your marriage will become your experience . . . if . . . IF you simply do the work I'm prescribing to finding your own answers through the power of MasterMinding.
Now is a new time! It is a time of rejuvenation! If you are in divorce court or feel like you are headed there, then you have this window of opportunity to do with your marriage what you will.
You are not without power here, even though you have been convinced that you are. It was “error thinking,” and your current belief system supporting you in being a victim. You are not a victim, unless you choose to be from this moment forward. This course will show you how to shift and change everything that needs to be transformed in your marriage, energetically.
You will no longer fight for what you want anymore. You will be shown a way to access energy that will transform each and every impossible situation your marriage has been revealing for you to change.
This is not about manipulating, begging, pleading, bitching, nagging, policing, controlling or refereeing. This course is about making infinitesimal energy changes, and about accessing the transformative energy of love, peace, harmony and joy.
Like I said, if what you've been doing is working, then why are you here? You can continue to fight for what you want, or you can learn how to do it differently.
Yes, one of you can bring the two of you together. So my information will apply to the person who has been ousted, left, abandoned, or the person doing the leaving, as well as the couple, who agree to sit down with this course and do it together.
My motivation for writing this course is multi-multifaceted:
The first reason is because on every magazine rack out there, there are dozens of prescriptions for better sex, better communication, better self-esteem tricks, tips and techniques, etc. I view all of these, basically, as band-aides that don’t deal with attitudinal energy, nor do they invite in Infinite Intelligence to help us transform all that has gone before.
The angle we need to come from here is this: great communication begins with connection--energetic connection. It's all about what is being said non-verbally, about what we are responding and reacting to with each other.
Next, it's about how powerless we believe we are in relationships, based on whatever legacy that has been passed down to us, from generation after generation of people functioning from a place of lack and limitation. Through merely observing those around us wherever we go, it’s plain to see that we all have this in our backgrounds to varying degrees.
Again, citing this fact is not so much about us looking back and discovering what happened to us as kids growing up, as much as it is questioning ourselves: What are we going to decide for today?
But you know, we typically don't decide, because we still don't believe we have the power to decide. That if I don't like what you are doing when you are with me, then I don't have any power to decide differently and have it actually affect an outcome between us. This could not be any further from the truth, and yet it is the one behavior that we repeat more than any other: the behavior of powerlessness!
This behavior of powerlessness can take on a variety of appearances: infidelity, anger, avoidance, verbal and emotional javelins launched out, i.e. passive/aggressive behavior, etc. All of which are guaranteed to consistently and forever get us what we don't want! But since that's what we learned to do, somehow, somewhere a long time ago, we still use powerlessness as if it's going to work to get us a desired result . . . one day.
Which can lead us to conclude, that of ourselves, we cannot do this . . . alone!
WHAT THIS COURSE WILL DO FOR YOU:
- This course is designed to take you and your marriage and your capacity to make love . . . to infinity and beyond.
- This course will teach you how to specifically formulate your relationship goals deliberately, intentionally and in the most vibrationally powerful language possible. Then as the days and weeks ahead unfold, energy will move through you and sustain you in all that you are required to do . . . or not do, that will literally cause things to move forward in your favor.
- You will learn to see things unfolding for you, and you will be discerning about what feels “energy driven” and what does not.
- You will learn to no longer force yourself to do things “out of alignment” with yourself, instead, taking action only when that action is coming through the true you.
- You will learn to stop forcing things, people and events.
- You will learn to pay attention to serendipity and synchronicity, and you will begin to see what is in front of you to do . . . or not do.
- This course will teach you how to take difficult people and circumstances and MasterMind in new, creative, innovative ways to set new energy in motion, so that the vibratory messages being conveyed command new results to old, redundant and repetitive arguments and disharmony.
- This course will teach you how to literally turn any situation around in your life that has not worked, or is not working, and create new, harmonious, fulfilling experiences for yourself and the lives of those you touch.
- This course will teach you how to take the appearance of any “impossible”-looking situation and dare to find the "possible" in it through simply formulating a MasterMind goal and request.
How can this course offer all of this? How do I know how to do all of this? It’s simple. This is what I have learned to do with MasterMinding for almost two decades. And this is what I still continue to do, while teaching others to do the same and more!You see, in my diverse experience working with families, children and couples in achieving relationship goals, it has come to my attention that, not only do we tend to generalize about what we want; we leave our inner voice, and therefore our inner authority and power, out of the equation. By doing this, we are minimizing the importance of what we prefer, and we are only letting ourselves want and ask for - verbalize - what we think is “possible,” not what we really prefer or would make the greatest difference to the quality of our lives.
Throughout this Online Course you will learn exactly how and when you collapse into states of powerlessness, and you will learn specific ways for you to begin to think--and therefore feel--differently about any and all of the problematic areas of your personal and professional life. And, from this new thinking-and-feeling place, you’ll be able to create new results, to revive your lifeless goals and the true and real desires that are being left unsaid and unacknowledged within you.
Most people have come to think about the MasterMind Principle and using MasterMinding as a way to be accountable to their goals. The reason why I have written this Online Course and MasterMinding: LIGHTNING in a Bottle!--a spiritually-based, comprehensive eBook--is to explain that MasterMinding is so much more than an accountability tool!
It’s true that many have successfully understood and utilized MasterMinding groups for peer accountability, for networking to expand their business acquaintances and referrals, to brainstorm for industry specific ideas, to seek new outlets for revitalizing their endeavors, and as a place to pick up and dust themselves off in the face of discouragement.
However, as I've said, I am writing because I have experienced it as being all of this and so much more. It is the "more" that has propelled me to create this work . . . so that we understand that MasterMind has “quantum” capabilities that we have just barely begun to tap into.
I have MasterMinded for almost two decades and because of this, I have expanded on this idea and developed a system and forum for people to tap the power of a MasterMind group in any and all areas of self-discovery, concerns and dream-building to infinity and beyond!
I am MasterMinding with you RIGHT HERE, RIGHT NOW, so that all which is in your heart of heart’s desires will be revealed to you beginning from this moment forward, and that you will be easily and effortlessly able to achieve the marriage of your dreams – “Quantum-fiably!”
Prepare Yourself! This is a very rigorous and comprehensive course. It will change your life and your marriage as you have known it!
The ultimate goal of this course is that you experience MasterMinding as a most incredible life-enhancing vehicle that can and will help you achieve extraordinary results in any and all areas of your life - and marriage - without struggle!
Your only job in MasterMinding is to find - through this amazing, inspiring and creative process - the easiest, efficient and most pleasurable ways to build a happy marriage and life balance.
Your only job, from this moment forward, is to deliberately and consistently have as your experience the beautiful unfoldment that happens when two or minds come together in agreement and harmony for the purpose of attaining a goal.
Rejuvenating your marriage - your love life - is not about working harder - it's about loving well! In fact, it's exactly the opposite of what you have perhaps previously thought. As you begin to experience what happens in a MasterMind session, you will find yourself opening up to loving vastly more than you ever knew was possible. This new, unconditional and merciful love will come through you, because you have decided to join forces with other like-minded individuals in your quest for the greatness and ease your inner self does in fact seek.
Seriously, it is not about trying harder, single-handedly, at what already is not working!
MasterMinding can literally be like lightning in a bottle, in that the energy and mind power of your MasterMind group will in fact break loose the confines of any bottled up limitation of your mind, regarding any area of your life that is less than you really want it to be. All you ever need to do is look at the results you are getting to determine if you are ready for, or in need of, a breakthrough moment! Bring it to your MasterMind group and the rest, as they say, is history!
The weekly process of MasterMinding has radically changed all of my ideas about setting and achieving relationship goals. In the process I will be showing you, you will learn to formulate requests based on what your inner voice is trying to get you to go for. It is from what feels best that you will learn to get deliberate and intentional toward the thing, goal or desire that you are wanting as your experience. Then and only then do the energy and the “how’s” reveal themselves and begin to unfold. You job at that point is to participate in the adventure! Everything you need will energetically come through as thoughts, ideas, hunches and yes, even more heightened desire, in some situations.
Essentially, when you are deciding for the things you most prefer, regardless of how impossible it all may seem to be at any given moment in time, you are asking to be changed at depth in your thinking on a weekly basis.
As you participate in weekly MasterMind sessions, you will begin to be more and more discerning between the voice of doubt and the voice of greatness.
Because of your MasterMinding experiences you WILL be able to discern more powerfully between what statistics tell you is possible, and what your heart, mind and spirit wants you to go for! It is definitely a process, and it is truly about being changed at depth, as you learn to trust yourself and your inherent ability to "find a way" with the energetic, vibrational support of two or more minds coming together in agreement about whatever you want to create in your life.
You will attract in everything you need to know - you will find energy and ideas coming through you, you will pay attention to those creative ideas that have been there all along, and you will find “vibrational” language to express yourself in ways you didn't even know you could do.
It will ALL come through you easily, as you allow it and as you allow and ask others to use their seeing power to enhance your life in ways that you only thought were mere wishes before now.
We are here to create. Every intention, every desire is energy in motion. MasterMinding is merely a conduit for that. We are simply stepping up to the plate and taking a swing at our desires, trusting once and for all, that what we want, wants us!
I want you to get the most from this experience. To do so, you'll want to be:
- Open-minded, highly motivated to learn and ready to expand your thinking.
- Willing to simply take whatever action that is in front of you to do, as it makes itself known to you.
- Trust your inner voice by practicing and playing with it on a daily basis.
- Willing to take full responsibility for your experience and what you want to accomplish as a result of giving yourself as fully as you possibly can to the course exercises.
- Ready to do the work, baby! MasterMinding works, if you work it.
In a nutshell, Stay Married: Make More Love & Less Conflict is about synergism - that state of affairs in which every part of your life interlocks seamlessly with every other part, with the net effect of enhancing your experience and boosting your performance higher than it's every been before.
When you work weekly on your goals, dreams, desires with a group of like-minded individuals you are releasing substantial energy into the ethers for immediate responses and inspired ideas, to achieve what you really want with effortless ease.
The reality is that your personal life affects your family life, which affects your business life, and which affects you physically, which affects you mentally, which affects you spiritually, which affects you financially, which affects you emotionally. Everything in your life affects everything else . . .
When you know how to get the good things in life that money can't buy and you use my method for MasterMinding, you will actually find yourself making more time . . . and money. You will have more freedom to do the things in life that really matter to you. You'll find that your relationships with your spouse, friends, family and associates improve, and you will experience more love in your life. You will have more peace of mind, which will enhance your health and make you happier and more content. And all these things, taken together, will create a strong feeling of optimism about the future.
Everything in your life affects everything else .
Synergism will let you do everything better. It will allow you to use your knowledge, ability, training and experience in new, more productive ways. Suddenly, you'll find yourself more competent at what you're dong. Your confidence will climb. You'll be more of a team player, listener and an encourager, and you'll have a certain charisma that draws people to you. You'll move faster, with more purpose and with less procrastination. And not only will your productivity rise dramatically, but you will also inspire the people around you to increase their output, as well. And that will help the entire work organization's financial position and profits.
In these 12 invigorating and powerful sessions, you will learn how to cover each and every area in your life powerfully in your weekly MasterMind sessions. You will learn exactly how to formulate the most vibrationally powerful goals and requests possible —and some you haven't even thought of yet!
During this unique course you will:
- Quickly and effectively identify and formulate new goals and requests for replacing the behaviors and repeated patterns that keep sabotaging your success.
- Understand how you show up and participate in your relationships, and become deliberate and intentional about the relationships you desire to now bring in as your experience.
- Find the POSSIBLE in “impossible” appearances.
- Learn to stop communicating mixed messages to yourself and others.
By becoming more aware of this information, you'll not only begin to see how you get in your own way, you'll be able to shift the patterns of behavior that prevent you from living an authentic, inner voice-directed life. This Online Course will be an experiential and interactive “dream-come-true”!
General Online Course Instructions
With the exception of Session 3 - Guidelines to the MasterMind Connection, all other sessions will have the following 5 segments.
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