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SUCCESSBYTE for the month of March
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DECIDE SOMETHING DIFFERENT

Innovative research of the past several decades explains how the mind works, how Quantum field theory comes into play and how one simple decision becomes a vibration that is connecting with other like frequencies. This is certainly more than enough evidence to support deciding differently about those areas of your life that are revolving rather than evolving!

What all of this research basically reveals is that no matter what you decide, you get to be right.  If you’ve decided life is tough, you get to be right.  If you’ve decided “certain” relationships are difficult, you get to be right.  If you’ve decided that your co-workers or business associates are incompetent boobs, you get to be right.  You are right because no matter what you’ve decided, that decision becomes a vibration that connects with other like frequencies.  So when you hear yourself say, “I am sick and tired of this!” –you can now know, that you cannot have these experiences evolve into something different until you decide something different.

Think Differently and You Will See Differently:

  • Decide instead that your world is full of charming people.
  • Decide instead to bless your world.
  • Decide instead that people in your world are competent and capable in their own unique way.
  • Decide instead to understand.
  • Decide instead to dismiss all sense of injury and call whatever you think has just happened, a success!
  • Decide to be kind.
  • Decide to be understanding.
  • Decide to get all of the information from every point of view.
  • Decide to be clear about what’s OK and what you’d prefer instead.
  • Decide to choose peace.
  • Decide to ask your inner guidance system to give you a healing and powerful perspective.

With all of the scientific evidence at hand, it is now becoming apparent why it is so important to be discerning about what's seriously not working, never did work and is never going to work.  For every appearance of something we no longer want, we have the power to immediately affect a different outcome based on what we decide.

Our lives need not be left in the balance to forces outside ourselves. All power is generated from the inside out.  Your power is entirely based on what you "accept" as the one and only reality in your world.  Be willing to be willing to change your mind …and in that one small moment of willingness, you can literally change your world.

You are never without power... you just thought you were!

"Deciding differently has the power to override a debilitating experience, in an instant."  -Mary Robinson Reynolds

©1989 – 2005 Heart Productions & Publishing

…and remember, YOU ARE A SUCCESS!

Mary

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“When you love somebody, your eye lashes go up and down and little stars come out of you.  When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different.  You know that your name is safe in their mouth.”  

--Jan Karon, Shepard’s Abiding from The Mitford Series

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OH LIGHTEN UP!  

…from my good friend Richard’s Humor Lists Email

Subject: Mouse Balls

I don't know how they wrote this with a straight face. This was supposedly a real memo sent out by IBM to all field engineers about a computer peripheral problem, in all seriousness.


Re: Replacement of Mouse Balls.

If a mouse fails to operate or should it perform erratically, it may need a ball replacement.

Mouse balls are now available as FRU (Field Replacement Units). Because of the delicate nature of this procedure, replacement of mouse balls should only be attempted by properly trained personnel.

Before proceeding, determine the type of mouse balls by examining the underside of the mouse.  Domestic balls will be larger and harder than foreign balls.

Ball removal procedures differ depending upon the manufacturer of the mouse.  Foreign balls can be replaced using the pop off method.  Domestic balls are replaced by using the twist off method. Mouse balls are not usually static sensitive.  However, excessive handling can result in sudden discharge.

Upon completion of ball replacement, the mouse may be used immediately.  It is recommended that each person have pair of spare balls for maintaining optimum customer satisfaction.

Any customer missing his balls should contact the local personnel in charge of removing and replacing these necessary items.  Please keep in mind that a customer without properly working balls is an unhappy customer.

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Q & A for MasterMinders for a Rich Business, Rich Life

Hi Mary,

I want you to know how much I LOVE the material in your MasterMinding101 Online Course!!!  First time through I MM with one partner, second time we picked up another friend and we are starting up again in January.  I have to say collectively we have all moved to a place of letting go of the HOW!!!  We were all very strong, determined Universe police!  This is a wonderful place to be.  I truly feel I am in the flow of life for the first time.  Spending my days letting the Universe/MM take care of the details.

I do have a question.  When you have a MM request is it necessary to revisit or repeat the request week after week.  I feel unclear about "holding a vision" and "placing your order and letting go.”  I I have felt lately that I would not repeat my MM requests as it seemed as though I was stuck and not believing that it was coming my way, much like ordering you food over and over for fear that it would not come.  Interested in your input.  THANKS so much again for your GLORIOUS work.  I will be placing a request to do MM sessions with YOU personally.

Happy Holidays to you and yours!!!

HUGS~D

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D....

To answer your question... I revisit a MM request as often as "I" need to -- while, yes, I have put my "order into the kitchen"... my believing is not always as firm as it could be... and so, by restating the MM request week after week, I feel more assured again...

OR ... I may find that I really wasn't in alignment with my request.  I may set a goal I "think" I should, but it really isn't what I wanted... or I may find,  I didn't quite state it the way I really wanted it because I somehow decided it wasn't really possible in the first place... so I made a goal to "band-aide"  or "settle for less than what I really wanted"... which of course never works... ...because there doesn't seem to be a good way to make yourself align with something you really don't want!!

Now, if you understood all that, then you understand!

About "thinking" you are stuck.  You are not stuck (stop using that language)... you simply may not yet be aligned with what you really want... when you work at it from that angle and ask yourself what you really want as opposed to what you've decided in possible, then you are smokin' !!!!!!!!!!  You've feel a shift in the energy and then you will feel more resolved... and all else starts to unfold perfectly for you.

Stay Tuned... more will be revealed...

Positively,

Mary

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Q & A for Stay Married™s


Hi Mary,
 
I stumbled upon your site and really liked it. I want to tell you that I have read EVERY book on saving marriages - but cannot convince my husband to give us a try. We live in different countries, and so our time together is with the kids and usually just a week every two months or so.
 
How do you turn a stubbornly-deadset-on-divorce husband around that you hardly ever see?
 
After almost 4 years, I have tried everything. All I have left are my prayers and hopes that God will turn him around.
 
We have two lovely children. It is so sad.
 
L

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Dear L,

I don't know if I can say this strongly enough... you can not save your marriage thinking the way you are thinking...believing.  It's not about you convincing your husband... it's about your thinking. 

For me to seriously answer you, I would have to write the entire Stay Married™ Online Course that I prepared and that's available for you to purchase and dive into.  I have a community of other people available to you at our message board who are also seeking a new way of creating happy marriages... regardless of what has gone before 

If you want my assurances, I most certainly will not give you any.  You must do the work and when I say that one of you can bring the two of you back together again, I mean it... and you have much to learn that is 100% different than how you've been coming "at" your husband.

This is not about begging.

This is about spiritual connection and power... learning exactly how to do things differently and to be an attractor to love and happiness, satisfaction and fulfillment in your marriage.

Do the work... surrender you're "know it all" way of doing things... it does not matter at all that you are in different countries.  Give up all excuses.  Stop labeling him >>"stubbornly-deadset-on-divorce husband "<<

Either do it or don't... it's really up to you,

Mary

PS... Your inner guidance is answering you... by what you write me, it is clear you are still not listening ...you do your work... and stop limiting the source that breathes you.

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Dear Mary,

I just wanted to let you know that I actually have ordered your course. Yes, I think what you said was strong enough.

I am certainly not perfect, but I have tried very hard to make a home for my kids alone living abroad. We have made many changes in our lives, and I hope I was able to comfort them somewhat.

It hasn't been easy.

Thanks for your quick response, and I look forward to starting the course. By the way, my husband doesn't believe in God and gets angry if I suggest looking for support in that direction. Do you suggest sharing this course with him if he is willing, or to do it alone first?

L

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Dear L

It's not at all necessary for him to buy into anything that you are doing to heal your marriage initially... Why continue to jump into landmines expecting different results?  If and when it's necessary for him to understand more about your connection to spirit, it will be revealed.. until that occurs... do your work, keep your mouth shut about your work and understand, it's about the work you will be doing without efforting to include him in on the process initially...... if ever....this is all explained in the early sessions of the course.

M

To submit your questions go to:  makeadifference.com